Taboo personal dating
In the midst of a full news feed, it just seemed like more noise. According to a 2013 Gallup poll, 96 percent of blacks and 84 percent of whites approve of black-white marriage.
In fact, I completely forgot about it until a few responses started to pop up. But what about that 4 percent of blacks and 16 percent of whites?
While scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed, I came across a link to a Gawker article that one of my friends reposted.
Because of the lack of dialogue on relationships in my household, I wasn’t able to have a dialogue on what mature, healthy relationships look and feel like.
Moreover, because the relationship had to be a secret, I felt like it was more important for me to stay out of trouble with my family and not say anything than to express how miserable I was feeling.
I received so much encouragement and support from family, from friends, and was told numerous times that I was “so brave” for speaking about these issues.
But I’d love to get to a point where having a dialogue on relationships in our South Asian community isn’t just brave–it’s part of life.
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We can learn so much from each other’s successes and failures when it comes to relationships.